Why You Should Hire a Proposal Planner
If you’re reading this, you may be on the fence about hiring a proposal planner, maybe you’re in the research stage, or maybe you have no idea what a proposal planner even does. Hey- I totally get it! I’m all about doing my research before making big decisions. You should see the research I’ve been doing for the past 4 years trying to pick my own engagement ring. Granted, it’s not totally my decision to make, and poor Sebastien has received about 500 ring ideas by now, but I think the fact I plan proposals is a good enough excuse for that behavior.
Moving forward to the real thing I wanted to talk to you all about… why you might need a proposal planner to help you pop the question. There are a lot of myths about the process of proposal planning, which is surprising given that it is a fairly new industry, but nonetheless it’s important we touch upon one of those in this article.
Myth: People who hire a proposal planner aren’t thoughtful.
This is so false I cringed typing it. Hiring someone to help you plan one of the most memorable events in your relationship is not insensitive or lazy or whatever negative connotation you believe goes with it. Think about all the work that can go into planning a proposal- you need an idea to start, a location, the details behind what is going to happen when you get there, maybe a photographer, family if you want them there, etc. I could go on for the entirety of this article about the vast amount of things you need to think about when planning this moment. Here’s the thing- having someone help you bring all of those details together shows even more thoughtfulness than you may think.
When you take the time and really think about it, the reason you even came across this article in the first place was because you are thinking about taking the next step in your relationship. Somewhere down the line in your unique story, you decided that this was going to be the person you spend the rest of your life with. That can be utterly terrifying, exciting, nauseating, and beautiful all at the same damn time! And once you finally ask them to marry you, and they say yes, and you realize how unbelievably happy you both are and will continue to be for the rest of your lives- isn’t important to make the most of it instead of worrying about what someone might think of you because you asked for help?
You don’t let other people make decisions in your relationship already, so don’t let the opinions of others stop you from making a decision this big. Having a proposal planner is the best way to help ensure this entire process remains a surprise! You won’t have to worry about setting anything up, contacting and hiring vendors, finding a location, looking for the little details, or stressing out about the entire process. What our proposal planning services are here to do is to bring forward your thoughtfulness, romance, and entire love story into one incredibly thought-out and organized event. And if that sounds like something that isn’t thoughtful to you, then maybe you’re in the wrong place ;)